Occasionally you may hear a report or isolated report as if it came from a big truck on an ice-road in Northern Manitoba , that “so and so” said ” such and such” with the topic being about you , your possessions or perhaps your car , S.U.V. or truck. Your first thought might well be “so what ?”. After all if you don’t have personal honor and integrity in dealing with people – what do you have ? Who knows in the future what awards and condemnations will come your way ?
Yet the question may well be in this situation – who is the “sniper” and what is the question in this or any other scenario . Is it actually the authority who is detailing the situation to you about the event or set of events ? Sometimes , and its surprising , the third party is in actuality the first party in question . How in essence do you get a certified safety report in such cases. After all you want to make any and all decisions with accurate and reliable information.
If this is the reason that you are being told about this supposed snipe by this particular informant somehow escapes you – turn on your headlamps. Take the time to ask “does so and so know ( or is aware) that you are telling or informing me of this “ ? After all there is not a consumer reports to verify info in such events and cases. Remember its always best to have 3rd party proof references. Remember it always can be advised and noted “write me a memo”.
Perhaps it time for a new boss
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